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Amygdala Hijack, Mediation Breakdown, and Process Control
An article about why some mediations end before they begin.
Raymond Niblock
Dec 28, 20253 min read


Rediscovering My Muse: Finding Time for Writing Amidst a Busy Law Practice
Advice on finding time to write.
Raymond Niblock
Dec 25, 20254 min read


Navigating The Impasse with Effective Mediation Strategies
A case study on getting past the impasse...
Raymond Niblock
Dec 6, 20255 min read


Some Cases Need To Be Tried…
Some cases need a trial, but in truth, most can be resolved before going to court.
Raymond Niblock
Nov 5, 20252 min read


Mediation Settles Cases
Nearly any case can, and likely should be, settled before going to court.
Raymond Niblock
Nov 1, 20254 min read


A settled case is a good case.
Mediation resolves cases, saving the parties precious time, money, and energy.
Raymond Niblock
Oct 28, 20252 min read


Book Review: A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms
Book Cover A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms reminded me why I first fell in love with Westeros. George R.R. Martin strips away the sweeping politics and dragons of Game of Thrones to give us something purer—an old-fashioned, deeply human adventure about honor, friendship, and the quiet weight of doing what’s right in a crooked world. Ser Duncan the Tall and young Egg make an unlikely but irresistible pair: one earnest and towering, the other small and sharp as a dagger, both
Raymond Niblock
Oct 26, 20251 min read


Review: The Ocean at the End of the Lane
Cover At first, I wasn’t sure what to make of its odd, dreamlike tone or where it was going, but by the end, I found it strangely moving. Beneath the surreal imagery and mythic strangeness lies a tender story about loneliness, loyalty, and the quiet, saving power of friendship. Gaiman captures the disorienting wonder of childhood as remembered by an adult—how the small world of a child can brush up against the infinite, leaving a mark that never quite fades. I almost set it a
Raymond Niblock
Oct 26, 20251 min read


A Brilliant Feel-Good Read.
If you need a feel-good read, this is it. From beginning to end, you’ll learn about one man’s muddled middle-aged journey from a hum-drum, but simple, life, to finding his voice, his place, and a real family. Cheers. Ray Niblock
Raymond Niblock
Oct 24, 20251 min read


No Kings - In Search of the Sequel to The Last Independence Day: Secession
Having just earned my parachutist badge from the U.S. Army Infantry Airborne School at Fort Benning, Georgia, I was primed to finish my last year at New Mexico Military Institute as Regimental Commander of the Corps of Cadets, Class of 1985–86. Some say I might have peaked that year. I don’t disagree, though I’ve lived a productive, meaningful life since. At 59 and some change, I posted that old photo of me in recognition of the No Kings Day demonstrations happening across th
Raymond Niblock
Oct 18, 20253 min read


What is Mediation?
Mediation in a nut-shell.
Raymond Niblock
Oct 15, 20251 min read


Huldufólk, a Sequel, and the Next Adventure
Huldufólk hides a magical story within its pages, and I cannot wait to share it with the world. If you know of agents drawn to immersive...
Raymond Niblock
Sep 14, 20253 min read


Agents, Queries, and Rejections
It's a good thing I have a thick skin. I've been spending a lot of time getting my queries for potential agents to represent Huldufólk:...
Raymond Niblock
Aug 29, 20252 min read


Reflecting on the Journey of The Last Independence Day and What Lies Ahead for Jon Freeman
Writing my first novel, The Last Independence Day: Secession , has been a remarkable journey. As I reflect on this experience, I see how...
Raymond Niblock
Jul 6, 20253 min read


The Man by the River: Rereading Siddhartha, and the Pilgrimage Behind The American of Venice
Siddhartha I’ve just finished rereading Siddhartha by Hermann Hesse—again. I return to it every few years, like one might return to a...
Raymond Niblock
Jun 22, 20252 min read


Three Books. Three Selves. One Voice.
Iceland It’s a strange and humbling thing to feel torn between duty and desire—not in life only, but in art. My readers know me as the...
Raymond Niblock
Jun 13, 20253 min read


Updating the website.
Marketing professional, I am not. I should have hired a professional to do it. But I'm stubborn. So there it is. I made some updates to...
Raymond Niblock
May 25, 20251 min read


Unveiling the Journey: My Second Novel, Huldufólk, is Ready to Captivate You
A Story Polished by Fire: Huldufólk Is Ready That's me, in Rome, smiling for the camera. The journey of a writer is never as linear as...
Raymond Niblock
May 18, 20252 min read


Missing, but in Action - a New Manuscript Completed!
It's been a busy time lately. After recovering from a severe flu in December and managing a heavy workload in my law practice since the...
Raymond Niblock
Mar 9, 20252 min read


My Journey as a Self-Published Author: Navigating the Joys and Challenges of Debut Novel Success
Becoming a self-published author has been one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life. My debut novel, The Last Independence Day:...
Raymond Niblock
Dec 25, 20245 min read
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